Jay and I met 22 years ago a bar. Jay knew my name, where I went to High School and where I worked during High School. He asked me out, I politely refused. Jay got my number from a friend, he called me the next day. He asked me out again but I declined. He asked if he could call me once in a while. I agreed and we talked for 6 months. Finally I agreed to one date. On our first date, Jay stated that he was going to marry me. I laughed as that was ridiculous. 21 years later, we?re still together.